If you have a history of abuse from one or both of your parents, you might have wondered at some point: should I forgive them? It’s hard to live your life with those emotional scars. You’ve probably struggled with feelings of unworthiness, low self-esteem, depression, resentment, anger, and maybe even rage. You’ve indulged in self-medication. […]
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7 Clever Dating Games All Narcissists Play
Most people aren’t narcissists. But once in a while, you’ll come across that special “snowflake” that will make your head spin. And when you do, watch out for their dating games. People with narcissistic features are common in the dating world. They’re especially comfortable on social media and online dating sites where wearing a mask […]
5 Ways Toxic People Violate Your Boundaries
Not all toxic people can be easily cut out of your life. Some are here to stay, like family members or work colleagues. To survive these “toxic ties,” you need strong, clear boundaries that are non-negotiable. But it’s not as easy as it sounds. Despite toxic people’s tendency to be controlling, their lives are usually […]
Avoid These 10 Mistakes When Going No Contact with a Narcissist
Did you recently go no contact with a narcissist, or think of doing it? You’ve got the right idea. Going no contact is probably the most effective way to escape the claws of a narcissist. However, it’s not as easy as blocking his number. The narcissist isn’t the “if you love somebody set them free” […]
10 Ways a Narcissistic Grandmother Can Harm Your Children
In fairy tales, a grandmother is a warm and fuzzy creature that acts as a mentor to the young protagonist. She is a silver-haired benefactress full of wisdom and kindness (think: fairy godmother). But what if your kids’ grandmother is more like the witch from “Hansel and Gretel?” You might be dealing with a “difficult” […]
Do Narcissists Have Magical Sexual Powers?
If you’ve ever been in a relationship with a narcissist, you know it’s no walk in the park. Then why was the sex so great? Why, even after years apart, after you’ve finally put the pieces of your heart back together, after piles of self-help books, why do you still think about it? Why do […]