Not all toxic people can be easily cut out of your life. Some are here to stay, like family members or work colleagues. To survive these “toxic ties,” you need strong, clear boundaries that are non-negotiable. But it’s not as easy as it sounds. Despite toxic people’s tendency to be controlling, their lives are usually […]
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How to Deal with a Toxic Relative Who Comes By Unannounced
Most people understand that dropping by unannounced is rude. But your toxic relative is either tone-deaf to the awkwardness of the situation or intentionally ignores the social norms to accommodate their own needs. For those extra thick-headed jerks, here are 7 tips on how to deal with their obnoxious intrusiveness. 1. This Isn’t a Good […]
10 Boundaries You Need to Set With Your Toxic Parent
If you’re dealing with a controlling, manipulative, toxic parent, you know that they thrive on overstepping your boundaries and pushing your “buttons.” And they often do it with impunity because they are…well, family. That’s precisely why setting boundaries with a parent isn’t easy. But it’s the only way to protect yourself from their overbearing, irrational […]
How to Disarm a Manipulator (When You’re a People Pleaser)
From time to time, we all manipulate each other in small ways to get what we want. But for some people, it’s the only way they know how to get their needs met. So how do you disarm a manipulator? First and foremost, by learning to recognize manipulative (or emotionally abusive) behavior. Manipulation tactics only […]