From time to time, we all manipulate each other in small ways to get what we want. But for some people, it’s the only way they know how to get their needs met. So how do you disarm a manipulator? First and foremost, by learning to recognize manipulative (or emotionally abusive) behavior. Manipulation tactics only […]
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7 Spiritual Lessons a Narcissist Can Teach You
From a spiritual perspective, everything happens for a reason, including the people we encounter. But what if you’ve encountered a narcissist? Are there lessons in that encounter? Or worse, what if you’re stuck in a relationship with one, and they’re making your life a living hell? This may be a tough pill to swallow, but […]
10 Steps to Taking Your Power Back From a Toxic Person
Do you have a toxic person in your life? Nearly all of us do. The term “toxic” refers to a particularly thorny individual that schemes, manipulates, and verbally assaults to maintain control and a sense of self-importance. It can be just about anyone: your partner, your boss, your friend, your mother-in-law… And what they do […]
Which Comic Book Character Is Your Abusive Mother?
You’ve always known that your abusive mother is not entirely human. That kind of evil has to be superhuman, akin to villains and mutants from the comic books. So let’s play a game: which DC or Marvel comic book character is your mommy dearest? 1. Killer Frost Mother Oooooooh she is as cold as ice! […]
Physical Discipline: How Does Being Hit Affect Children?
Are there acceptable forms of physical discipline? How does being hit affect children? And if there is a way to undo the damage? Read on to find out. Being hit is bad enough. But physical abuse at the hands of the person who’s supposed to love and protect you is simply devastating. I know this […]
7 Emotionally Abusive Tactics Toxic People Use to Get Their Way
If you’re a human living on planet Earth, you know at least one person who can be described as “difficult,” “emotionally abusive” or “toxic.” These creatures can be identified by their uncanny abilities to create drama out of thin air and exploit other people for their satisfaction. Here are their favorite weapons of mass destruction. […]
15 Signs of a Toxic Grandparent and How to Deal with Them
This blog post will help you recognize 15 warning signs of a toxic grandparent and deal with them with confidence and clarity. When you’re in a relationship with someone who mistreats you, it’s common to hear advice like “dump him immediately.” However, when it comes to an abusive family member, the response often shifts to […]
20 Ultimate Signs Of a Toxic Mother-in-Law (And What to Do About Her)
How can you tell if you have a toxic mother-in-law? That’s easy. Just answer these questions. Do you feel like you have to walk on eggshells around your mother-in-law? Do you feel drained after spending time with her? And most telling of all: do you feel like nothing you do is ever good enough for […]
How I Untied Myself From a Toxic Boyfriend
Have you ever had a toxic boyfriend or girlfriend? If you ever were in a relationship like that, you know how confusing it can be and how difficult it is to leave it. This is my story. I’m sharing my past dating history, which was often marked by love addiction and codependency. Eventually, I was […]