Is there a silver lining to toxic relationships? Some might say: hell no. It’s a terrible experience you’re better off forgetting like a bad dream and moving on. But for those of us who are inclined to look for meaning and value in all life has to offer, the answer is more complicated. In fact, […]
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13 Subtle Signs of a Toxic Relationship
On the surface, the signs of a toxic relationship are obvious and indisputable — like a black eye. But in most cases, the red flags are much more subtle and intertwined with emotions. This article explores the less obvious signs of a toxic relationship, and what to do if you find yourself in one. Do […]
Gaslighting in an Intimate Relationship
Just like gaslighting in the family, gaslighting in an intimate relationship is disturbingly common. It’s so common, in fact, that most people don’t realize when they’re being gaslit or when they’re the ones doing it. That’s because gaslighting can be unconscious or unintentional. But it can also be very deliberate. This is the nefarious scenario […]
13 Signs You’re Dating Mr. Big (And Why You Should Dump Him)
Are you dating a real-life Mr. Big? These signs can tell you if you’ve fallen for an emotionally unavailable man, and what to do about it. Carrie and Mr. Big… Although it’s been 10 years since the finale of Sex and the City, the central relationship of my favorite HBO series still puzzles me. Was it […]